Sorry, Jackie I cannot give you many details. It sounds kind of kitsch but we really are sworn to secrecy. It is a very intense program (I have never been more tired in my life) for two and a half days, run by married people that have been in our shoes and made it successfully to shore. It gives your H and you a chance to really know each other.
If someone had described the process to me before I went I would have said "that is impossible, you are kidding, it will never work". Well, it does, but not for everyone: three of 18 or so couples left before we finished the weekend. But it is the real thing. There were couples separated for years and living in different parts of the country, and couples in the middle of divorce proceedings and one already divorced.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
