You could be speaking in a soft voice while setting butterflies free on a warm spring day and a MLCer is still going to take offense to it.
was very funny. Thank you for a good laugh, Amy.
It is also so very true, SL. So, please don't do what I do--- which is to explain, re-explain, and then explain my re-explanation yet again... That tends to drive anyone nuts, not just an MLCer.
I see you going that way, though. Just stay dark, and quit "what-if"ing yourself to death. You cannot prepare yourself for everything that is going to come your way. You are better off staying dark, and IF he does contact you eventually, come here and ask the specific question you need an answer to. Right now your speculation is going to drive you mad.
Not getting on you, mind you. I've done the same. I want to spare you the nothing good that comes from thinking and behaving the way you are.
