Hope you had a great weekend. I think your H agreeing to go through the program with you is huge. Let him take the lead now, stop trying to initiate R talks with him for awhile and definitely stop talking about the A. He will hear this as nagging and that's not what you want. Working on the M has to be HIS decision now - he already knows how you feel.
Also,
Quote:
"I know I'm in the wrong, I admit I am in the wrong".
That is not remorse.
It may not be full blown remorse like "My God what have I done, will you ever forgive me? I'm so sorry! But - it's a step to actually admit he's in the wrong.
Remember, this is going to be a slow, slow process and his brain is not functioning at full speed right now.
Hang in there!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
