You are amazing! I so admire your strength and ability to stay level headed. You are so right, you deserve someone who will love you unconditionally, without reservations and it sure does sound like H is coming around to that point.
Optimist, what did you do at Retrauville, what were the seminars/exercises that you did? I'm not going to mention it to H again until he says he is ready to work on the M, but I think we need tons of tools to "correct" all the mis-firings we have in our conversations and dealings with each other in the past.
