Mockers, really cute idea on the welcome signs, I am sure he loved it and missed you guys even more when he saw it. I think you did great over the weddding ring missing. And yes he should have had it on, I agree, but he brought it up to you is a good sign. My H hasnt worn his in over a year- took it off to water ski he claimed and then later said it didnt feel right to put in on. Well, I guess not if you have a girlfriend on the side huh? see, I still get angry! But you are feeling the same way I felt and still obviously have inkling of feeling. I think over time it lessens and when he recognizes how you feel and takes responsibility for his contribution- I think it will lessen even more. I dont get the kicked in the gut feeling anymore for what its worth! I really enjoyed your post becuase you have written down my exact feelings- maybe I will copy it for my H some day. Hang in there and be happy he is there for you - even if he has made mistakes, at least he is drawn back to you now! LOL Shay
