Maria, which half of the Gemini are you married to? as for me and my armour,it is self preservation. I was a very lost soul when my m ended.It took me years to rejoin the human race,a very long and hard battle. It is weak and sad when I know I have so much love to give but its safer not to open old wounds. hmmmm he probably just wants to offer his sympathy at the loss of my marriage. I don't need or want that. I will also never remarry purely for financial reasons. As for the enjoyment, well that was why he dumped me, he was training for the priesthood and lets just say he had a hard job keeping his beliefs in check.
When Ali polishes her crystal ball all will be well.