You can only control your actions. Every chance you get, you can continue to remind him that you need action on his part, but he's gonna give that or not...that you can't control. I just really think it will be hard for him to give action if he doesn't get the "feel good" from you. You can be fun and flirty and still have boundaries. You can be fun and flirty and still communicate your expectations. You can be fun and flirty and still make him work.
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
