My H and I went to Retrouvaille and we both loved it. It helps a lot and gives quite a few tools but there is hard work to do... It will make you both see the other with new eyes. But you need commitment of both parties (even if it is grudgingly given) for it to work. I did not expect anything from the weekend and was given much. But it is not a cure-all. I do not think we could have gotten this far w/o it, but it did not solve our problems, just gave us tools to deal with them better.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
