What a great list, I love it. I can relate to everything on there. I like the girlfriend idea, I can't even think of the last time I flirted!
Sarcasm, it seems such a wonderful thing to give up, doesn't it?
For the energy, do you ever do tapes at home? I know with the little guys it is hard to get out. Tae Bo is great, library probably has copies or Blockbuster if you want to rent before you buy, but tons of punching and kicking, can be very beneficial.
Maybe we can do retrovaille together--if my H ever makes the decision to work on things! Looks like there are tons of those sessions going all the time.
Keep your eye on those goals, they are great ones.
Optimist--a good anger book is The Dance of Anger: A Woman's guide to changing the pattern of intimate relationships by Harriet Lerner. It helped me. Should probably be re-reading it!