The hit and run thing came from me early on discussions with Sandi, where she told me to think of a cool guy or moviestar that I could behave like. I came up with James Bond... She said I wan't the only one! LOL! He seems to be doing pretty good with the ladies! Dunno if you guys agree or not, but that's what I was thinking anyways. So, thinking about how he makes women get to him, I had the impression it might be that he pays a lot of attention to them, then he basically ignores them for a little bit until they wonder if he's still interested, then he comes back... Not really sure if that's how it works for him, but I took some inspiration from that...
So my "hit and run" consists of being really nice, friendly and concerned with her and then days that I do my own thing and don't contact her. This is also becoming easier as I get around to doing more things with friends, or work on the house.
Wanted to explain where the hit and run came from!
pearl, Tawnya, MB and TG, thanks for stopping by. I did have fun this weekend, that's why I haven't really checked the board in a few days!
And, TG, the way I brought up MC a while ago with my W was that maybe going on a regular basis might work as opposed to a single visit and then letting it just play from there. She seemed agreeable to that, so we'll see.
Dunno if you guys agree or not, but that's what I was thinking anyways. So, thinking about how he makes women get to him, I had the impression it might be that he pays a lot of attention to them, then he basically ignores them for a little bit until they wonder if he's still interested, then he comes back... Not really sure if that's how it works for him, but I took some inspiration from that...
