In case that doesn't work my old threads are all in Newcomers and are called
New here Newbee with some questions Very cautiously optimistic
Brief summary: Me 37, H 37, together for 11 yrs, M for 5 1/2 yrs; two children under age three. Bomb 1/03 - ILYBINILWY H moves out 2/03 Find DR 4/03 Learn of OP 4/03 (God's perfect timing) R with OP over 5/03 H goes across the country for 13 week assignment 7/03 Began to see baby steps 4/03, then bigger steps 5/03
The impetus for my move to piecing is that I learned today that our landlord (for the house the children and I are living in) is not renewing our lease. We have until September 30th to move. We will be moving next week into the house my H has been renting since 2/03. H flying home to help us move.
I had resisted moving to piecing, but feel that now I need to be thinking more along those lines, since we will not have the transitional period I thought we would have when my H returns from this out of town job in October.
I need to rewrite my goals and get ahold of myself. (Alot of feelings - anxiety, joy, disbelief.) Right now need to put my head down and get the work done to get everything packed. Also need to keep myself steady in my interactions with H.
Hopoe everyone here is doing well today.
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche