WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 7

[confusedinpa]

I think she's right you do need to let go. Not in a sense of giving up but for your own sanity.

Since I've been through this I will tell you it's going to get worse before it gets better. It would drive me crazy that I couldn't just see her or talk to her whenever I wanted, I made the mistake at the beginning by trying to do that...PLEASE DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE. Let her miss you, it won't happen right away but I think it will but it's got to be on her time not yours. Enjoy the time you have with the kids and the hard part GAL your butt off when there not with you.

Volleydog,

Thanks for the advice. I do know that's the right thing to do. The eternal struggle is doing what right is not always what's easy.....

Thanks again for stopping by my thread.