I agree with JMO. She should move. Why are you sparing her the heartache of living with her parents? This is not your problem, and you are again allowing her to take, take, take and not have to give anything.
WP, I'm basing this on the fact that the decision to divorce is MUTUAL now. This is no longer her saying "I can't live like this," or "ILYBINILWY". So I do get something out of this -- and hopefully, it's my long-awaited happiness.
