When the Teacher Becomes the Student

[Sugar and Spice]

Pup,

So sorry that things are going this way. Its certainly not for a lack of effort on your part. You have given a herculean effort and did not recieve the same in return.

So what if it drives her crazy and isn't ideal for her. Sorry... but - prepare for the worst. IMHO from the general reading I've done on your threads, I think the "amicable" divorce odds for you are maybe 50/50. Please don't comprimise your life in some sort of fantasy idea that she will appreciate it and recipricate. It is unlikely she will. Don't move - make her move. That way she gets the freedom to come and go out and you are able to stay in your house and provide stability for the kids.

I couldn't agree more. Mrs. Puppy has chosen this path, now let her see what the consequences of her choices are. Letting her continue to have a sense of entitlement is really unfair to all involved at this point. If you have made the decision to divorce then let her start to experience life as a "free" woman. Keeping her in the lifestyle she has grown accustomed to is not helpful to anyone, especially you.

As for an "in-house" separation...don't do it. Its very detrimental to the spirit and heart. Any positive feelings that you have for her will be crushed with this situation. JMO, but I'd have her move out until the situation is stabilized and things are a bit clearer.

Hugs and prayers to you and the boys...