Originally Posted By: Stillhope


Forget # 3 - this is now a divorce. Neither of you answer to each other or owe the other explanations. # 3 is an agreement for parent and kid - not divorcing husband and wife.

JMO


I should clarify. #3 was written to her when Separation was still the item being discussed. She has ALWAYS wanted separation, going back to when she was still lying to me that there was nobody else in May of 2007, and several times since. She's always feared divorce, and never wanted it -- just wanted some vague "I CAN'T LIVE LIKE THIS ANYMORE!" and "I'M NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER!" and "I NEED TO GET ON WITH THE REST OF MY LIFE!" I'd never been in favor of separation before, for a lot of reasons, but this time I was willing to, with those three conditions.

Puppy