We've already discussed counseling. He brought it up in his letter and we talked about it the first time we talked, two weeks ago. At that time I asked if he was serious about going or if he was just saying that because he thought that's what I wanted. No, he really thinks going will help resolve our communication issues. So I told him that yes, I agree and think it's necessary to go. I also informed him that the counselor we saw previously thinks I should dump his ass permanently so it's up to him to decide if we go back to that counselor or find a new one. And if he wants a new one then it's his responsibility to find one and make the appointment.
So it's not like I'm expecting him to read my mind about counseling. I'm expecting him to follow up.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
