I agree with JMO. She should move. Why are you sparing her the heartache of living with her parents? This is not your problem, and you are again allowing her to take, take, take and not have to give anything. As for #3, I really, really, understand why you would want this, but in light of everything it doesn't make much sense. I think it does for you, and it's how I would behave, but it doesn't make sense for her and it's not how she is going to behave. I feel really bad for her. She's giving up on a someone who seems to love her tremendously and she will one day find herself alone and regretting all of this stupidity. She will regret this. Not that this is what it's all about, but take some comfort in that.
