Forgive AND forget?

[WCW]

Thanks PS, you've been with me so long.
1hope, it's nice to hear the happy in your posts. Keep working on it!

This is such a crazy whirlwind these days. H and I are busier than a one legged man in a butt kicking contest.
We have a BIG event coming up and H wanted to 'pack up' things last weekend. It didn't happen as planned, and we had conversations about when to try again - Monday evening. In the morning I told H that soandso was coming to help bla bla bla.
No show H to help that evening.
Friend and I did as much as we could, but I called H for pertinent info and also asked why he wasn't home to help.
H called back and said he hadn't planned on being home that evening as he had other priorities that needed to be done. He also said he remembered that I told him in the morning that soandso was coming to help. Whatever, H showed up a couple hours later at almost 11pm when all was loaded except what needed his input.

Today, I called H and said I was running errands and asked if he needed things from the same place or had already been there. H called back in a few minutes in a REAL happy voice and asked who I was? Then told a funny story that he thought he was returning my call and ended up calling my sister instead. That explains his happy voice, he might be talking to someone else! Why don't I get the happy voice?....

In the course of the convo I asked if he had a chance to complete some other things. H said no that was what he was going to do last night until he got called home. I asked why if he wasn't planning to be home to help he didn't just SAY that when we talked in the morning, and at least I would have known not to expect him and dealt with it without bothering him or expecting him. No answer.

Communication at it's best again!

There's a few things that don't 'feel' right about some things H is saying. I won't ignore it totally but I am trying to just let it slide due to the high stress this week and my over active suspicious mind during this anniversary period of ow memories.