We'll see what happens next. I'm waiting for him to bring up counseling. I think it's important to have someone help guide us through the upcoming discussions that need to happen. Wondering how long I give it before I bring it up. Still trying to walk the fine line between telling him what I want/need and letting him figure it out on his own.
Be careful with this pearl. By now, you should know that xBF coming up with actions isn't his strong point. Don't set yourself up for disappointment by expecting him to come up with the idea to propose counseling. This stage is difficult, but you have to decide where you draw the line between guiding him and being willing to be guided by him the way he sees best.
