WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 7

[antlers]

I don't want to give up on my marriage.

I do want to keep trying but I've run out of what to do.

Then don't! No matter what your friends and therapist, or anybody else, including your wife, are telling you. We're told here that if only one person in the relationship changes...then the relationship WILL change. That's the dynamics of it. It can't help but change.

Then keep on trying. Sometimes I suppose there is nothing else we can do, except work on ourselves. Period. And have patience, patience, and more patience.