Thanks for that; yeah, I kinda figured that's what you meant. It's a great post, and it helped me a lot.
I assume that since I'm not really "DBing" anymore, and since there's no wayward behavior other than a suddenly-locked cellphone (which could just as easily be her talking legal strategy or "God, I just need to GET ON WITH MY LIFE!" with a female friend as it could be anything else), that it would be okay for me to be the one to move out? I really would like the boys to have as much day-to-day stability as possible.
My only option right now is HER PARENTS' house, which is going to be uncomfortable at best, and NUTS at worse. I love 'em to death, but just think of George Costanza's parents on "Seinfeld," and throw in a good dose of Ray Romano's parents on "Everybody Loves Raymond," and then throw a hearing problem on top of the whole thing.
