Puppy I'm really glad to see you started this thread. I was hoping you would b/c you've helped so many here, it's nice to have a chance to help you or at least try!
I'm sorry and I'm not. I still consider you 100% successful DB story. You single-handledly saved a marriage that maybe didn't deserve to be. I understand 100% about the hug. I think I could forgive my H his A, but when he refused to hug me before my brother's brain surgery, I don't think I could get over that. You do deserve someone loving and caring!!!
My only concern is if your W is having an affair, and it sounds like you think she might be? I don't think living in the same house is a good idea. Having gone through that, I wouldn't recommend that to anyone esp. if you aren't trying to DB anymore. (((((pup))))))) Karen
