Thank you for jumping in here rob. I absolutely 110% agree with your reasoning. That is what has been frustrating through all of this. She has many of these ideas about things where you shouldn't have to come out and state directly what the problem is. I don't understand this logic, just seems like a way for her to justify not having to communicate.
I am a little nervous because she just called and asked if we could meet at a little restaurant at 7:30 tonight, just to hang out. I certainly don't want to bring up the relationship talk, but I would like to be with her for little moments like this. I plan to be strong and comfortable for the visit, I just have to do some mental work between now and then.
The Dr. appointment yeserday seemed to go well yesterday. I explained my side of the situation to the dr. and we are trying some things to help with the wandering mind and anxiety. Before leaving, the dr. told me that I really need to try and find a way to get my wife in for help. She feels that my wife is suffering from underlying depression. She feels that the unhappiness is in her life, although she is blaming it on the marriage. I told her that there is no way in hell that I could tell my W that, she would rip my head off. She understood and suggested that I use one of her friends or mother. Not sure if I should let this one be or pursue it.
M 30 WAW 29 T 15 M 5 ILYBNILWY 3/8/09 Separated 3/14/09
