Anyway Baggy, and anyone else, if you have any experience with female ejaculation, that would be a topic I could speak on a little bit. But in my experience I haven't found that many people who do have experiencew with it so I end up feeling a bit strange to even bring up the topic.
Don't feel strange at all. Mrs. B has experienced female ejaculation, 'gushing' or 'spurting,' as it's called, on many occasions now. From talking to her about it, it generally occurs when she's by herself with the Hiatache, and giving herself a -long- string of orgasms, each spaced about 2-3 minutes apart -- she has this down to an art, and as I've indicated before, has given herself up to 23 individual O's in an hours time. In general, she says that they tend to build in intensity and get better with each successive one, and frequently end in a explosive and very nice 'gusher.' This is entirely by herself, however.
With me, she still feels more inhibited, and very embarassed and self-conscious by such strings of O's and gushing. This despite praise and encouragement from me to the contrary. Thus, to date, she's only gushed a few times with me, and while very nice, the O's are never quite as good as she can give to herself, by herself. I'm not discouraged, however -- I know that THAT is how sexual exploration begins -- she'll eventually feel comfortable enough to fully LET GO, when I'm there too.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
