SH...you're doing the right thing. Powerful stuff indeed. Any woman who would lead a man in ..in front of you...any man...that would walk by you....and do that....UGH. It just gives me the heebie jeebies.

You must stay your course now lest you look like man that can't keep his word. You DO deserve to be loved. Hey..when you swim in a cesspool you begin to stink. You need to get out and wash yourself off. Again....I believe...the only way to reconcile a relationship is to grieve it's loss and move on. I believe Dr. Gray...that it is impossible to reconcile until the M is totally dissolved and, if possible, is rebuilt from scratch. THAT...of course...can take years.

Good stuff indeed. I'm still growing by reading this.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;