Hey Baggy. Yes, great material you've written there. I'm so happy for your wife to get to experience vaginal O's. It certainly is a whole different world, or can be. And the blended O....whew, yay!
I can say my experience is similar to your W's, except that I can have a clitoral O (hence forth called a C.O.) from oral and from moderate vibrators. I did not discover vaginal O's (hence forth V.O.) until being with my fiance. I do recall a couple of sex experiences with my ex-h where I was beginning to feel the stirrings of a V.O., but I had no clue what it was or what was happening and I never followed up on it. Then with my fiance, in the beginning of our relationship and before we really got into having sex a lot, we would instead make out a lot and during that process, I got fingered a lot. I loved it! I hadn't had this sensation since I was a teen and really enjoyed it, in fact, sometimes for what seemed like hours. During that, I was again feeling the stirrings of a V.O. but this time, I decided I wanted to understand and learn more about this feeling.
So I started doing a lot of research and for the first time, although I hadn't experineced one yet, I learned what a V.O. is and what a blended O is. I had never really understood these terms before and had only considered a C.O. to really be an O (due to my own ignorance). But it seemed that once I was beginning to learn about V.O.'s, my body just up and decided all on its own that I was gonna get to have some of those!
Shortly after I had begun to read up on V.O.'s, I had a spontaneous explosion of fluid during sex, combined with the most intense and crazy orgasm I had ever felt before! It was nothing like a C.O., although in the sense of the relief that is felt when you get that release, it was similar. For some reason, in my short studies on V.O.'s I hadn't really come across much literature about female ejaculation. So I was truly baffled here with what just happened. My fiance was not so naive. He just happily said "oh honey, you came! And it was so beautiful!"
After that, I switched my reading to not only V.O.'s but also the topic of g-spot and female ejaculation. It took me another couple of months and some sincere effort to reproduce that first spontaneous explosion V.O. I found it difficult to "let go" enough to reach that point again, although I was encouraged by the spontanous time to keep trying.
Finally I found success within myself, in a way I can't really describe. Those who know what I'm talking about would just say that there is a deep "letting go" that has to happen, and you can't consciously do it but you can consciously stop it. There is a balance that must be achieved.
Anyway, now I'm a pro and have no troubles with big, squirty V.O.'s whenever we want them. We have to be very diligent about keeping towels near the bed, because we sometimes go at it spontaneously.
I have recently been successful in a series of blended O's, and wow, they are really rocking my world! It is difficult to handle all of that - pleasure - which is so intense that it nearly feels like pain.
Anyway Baggy, and anyone else, if you have any experience with female ejaculation, that would be a topic I could speak on a little bit. But in my experience I haven't found that many people who do have experiencew with it so I end up feeling a bit strange to even bring up the topic.
But Baggy you're a real trouper for being so open, smart, caring, and yet intelligently sensual. I pray so that you and Mrs. Baggy will get to the same place together at the same time. Blessings to you both. Your journey has helped so many others which you probably will never know about.
