he is back, i think

[Yoyowife]

If the phone pranks happen again tonight, let your H answer it. I'm sure that's what she is after, to find out if he is there. Also, this would be assurance to you that he has broken it off with her. If he agrees to answer the phone it lets you know that he isn't trying to hide the fact from her that he is at home working on his M.

I know how difficult this is. I put up with so much from my H. I was so afraid of "running" him off and never set the boundaries I should have. I always tried to be so accomodating to him and it has not gotten me anywhere as far as reconciliation. Yes, we have a civil relationship, but I don't want to be his friend, I want to be his wife.

He needs to be more transparent to you and show you he is trying to work it out. My H made so many false starts back towards our marriage only to withdraw again. I wish I had a solution for you, but I don't. I only can speak from experience of what didn't work. I'm sure there are others who can give you the advice you need, I just wanted to offer you support.