[quote=faithisbelieving] That's the thing. My intuition tells me that W is in a fog and not making rational decisions, and is trying to get me to go along with D so she doesn't come across as the "bad guy". I won't go along with it, if there is going to be a D, it's all on her, and I will not help move the process along at all.
This very thing upsets my H a lot about our sitch. He thinks I'm being "righteous" and a "goodie" by not contributing to a D. I honestly believe in our M and am standing for what I believe is. It's simple. I have done nothing to stand in his way but will not aide the process. Our Ss can definitely challenge us!
Keep standing your ground and be strong!
Last edited by FitChik; 04/14/0904:17 PM.
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
