The above also stuck out for me when I read it yesterday. Not only does it apply to my sexual relationship (which was basically non-existent for 8 years - once a month at best), but it also applies to me being a SAHM. I'm a little bit stuck right now... and restless.
Yes, since I've been hanging out here, I don't feel so alone as a SSW, and I don't feel so alone in general because our virtual community is always checking in on each other. I hate to liken it a pacifier, but it does have that quality at times. Coming here relieves my need to express, vent, inquire for advice, and connect with people who understand. Most people in my face-to-face life don't have (or don't care to discuss if they do have) a situation like mine.