That's the thing. My intuition tells me that W is in a fog and not making rational decisions, and is trying to get me to go along with D so she doesn't come across as the "bad guy". I won't go along with it, if there is going to be a D, it's all on her, and I will not help move the process along at all.
Then don't do it. Stick to your guns on this. If she goes through with it...let it all be on her. Divorce is not best for our kids. They don't have a say so in a decision that will greatly affect their lives for the rest of their lives.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
