Hey Song. I have to agree - divorce isn't the answer that will help your kids. But you have to set the example for your kids. Your kids need to see that Dad is not the one that gave up. Sets the right example.
If your wife wants a divorce, then she needs to be the one to initiate it. She needs to go down and get the paperwork, hire the lawyer, etc.
Hang in there. You are doing the right thing for your kids.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."