WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 7

[confusedinpa]

Yep they don't call it the roller coaster for nothin'.

Quite frankly, I wouldn't even require your W to go to the every other C session. Sounds like a half ass attempt at placating you on her part. She really doesn't want to go.

I think the best for you and her is the space.

Hold on tight because the road gets bumpier.

Stuck808

I can see the space providing positives and negatives. I just hope we don't kill each other or what's left of our relationship in the process.

I hadn't required her to attend counseling. Every week we had set it up where I was going and she was welcome to attend as well. When she brought up attending every other , I responded "If that's what you want to do"

This week is going to be a tough one. In a way I was relieved that she was going to complete her move yesterday. I had mixed feelings when she called to say her movers never showed up. I had wished it was done so we could move forward. Now we're still in limbo

I'm particularly urked that our kids know. Last nite they both asked when how long she will be renting. They both asked as they went to bed and got up a few times to ask

They are now in limbo as well