I'm starting a new thread just cause it feels like a different 'stage' these days.
But I've been living at my parent's house for a week now. I still go to the house a few days/week while she's at work just to do things and workout with my gym in the basement.
I took my S4 to my parent's house for a 'sleepover party'. It was really great to spend time with him, and I think he had fun too. My W and I did talk about having dinner on Sundays together for my son to see us being amicable. I was having second thoughts about doing this jsut cause I didnt' know if it was good for me. I am trying to go dark, though I can't really go dark cause of our son. But she texted me Sun asking when I was bringing him home and if we were still doing dinner. I didn't reply, but just showed up when we showed up.
We had some small talk at the house, and then all went out together. She is still distant and we only have small talk. I noticed that she is still wearing her ring, though I don't think it really means anything.
I didnt' want to ask any questions or talk about the R, but I was wondering why I haven't gotten served yet. Its been a week and a half that she said she filed the D. I dont' know how long it takes to get served usually, but I haven't heard anything about it from anyone yet.
I'm finding that being away from the house and her, and talking to friends and family all the time, its getting easier to detach. It's a good thing for me, but I think this is letting her detach even more too. For some reason, I feel like I'll just keep doing my own thing, and then one day, she'll just tell me that she got tired of waiting again, and tell me that she wants to keep moving with the D....just like what she did before with filing the D.
I have a night class that starts tomorrow night, so I'll be really busy for a couple months. It'll be good for me to focus on that.
