Good feedback. I didn't realize that things didn't add up until after I made the comment. So from your perspective, it is best to let the person know that you are aware of where they are going. I have been trying to avoid friction and hope that this will run its course before it is too late for us. I am trying to act as if, while not being a door mat, which is not always easy to do. I met with my attorney today and she wants to go aggressive to lay a solid foundation and drag things out. My only fear is that it will appear to my wife as I am trying to be unreasonable which would result in more arguments and conflict, something my 180 has been trying to avoid. I had a pretty in your face style and my wife always knew where I stood, so my 180 involves more softening and trying to listen to her and taking advice and input. Any help?
