I should have done this months ago but I wasn't really ready mentally. Now I am. I have not given up on my M but I know if I have to move, it will be to a good place with a very good life.
I think that's true; I was just telling someone tonight I can't believe how dumb I acted when H was cheating, cooking his dinners and doing his laundry and all that. But it just takes some of us a while to get to the point where we can start imagining a positive future that may or may not include our WAS. And you know it gets easier and easier!!!
And the thing is if your H realizes by your moving that he's making a huge mistake that would be great; but you're setting your family up for a great life no matter what. Karen
