Don't do it! That's persuing, under the guise of apologizing. I know it's hard not to. She know's how you feel...believe me. She knows you care, and she knows you don't want this. We feel a need to keep telling them, like they're gonna forget or something. They won't. And they know how we feel.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.