OK, dress update. We found one. It's amazing. Made us BOTH happy. H called to check in on us... wanting to know if we're still talking, or if we had caused a scene. Sent him the MMS pic of D17 in the dress. He says, "So, I love that dress. HOW MUCH do I love that dress? Looks like a major purchase!" Told him it was MUCH cheaper than her original pick, and he sent D17 a txt telling her he was proud of her saving of a couple hundred dollars. She replied, "So, can I use the extra on jeans?!" NICE!
AJ - I'm not so sure I'm detaching, as we've not had any issues lately. We don't have any issues unless I bring them up. He simply exists in his 'happily friends' stage... Even starting to become overly nice!
UPDATE:
We NOW have three cases of strep throat in the family and one bladder infection! JOY! Looks like the rugrats are home from school on the first day back tomorrow! GOD HELP ME!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.