i also want to ask your opinion on how i go about things now, do i still have limited contact? i think this will harm the situation. do i support her if she calls and needs somone to talk to? again i think i would be better if i did support her? she will desprate for some new furniture for her new place, again i think this will help my cause,
i do understand no peronal gifts should be bought, but i think by helping her a little for the house, that it will give me brownie points, beacuse she wont see it as a gift, she will see it has me helping her and the kids to buid a home up, she does text me and puts a kiss on the end so i feel i should respond back with a kiss at the end of my reply, beacuse if start to be a little mean or cold she will think i dont give a sh*t, beacuse of my ignorance in this i feel by being ignorant now it will only bolster her thoughts and reasons for leaving me,
