Wow, this is all to much! I am out of breath just reading and you are living it.
can I just digress for a mo, this is about me really. I have loved basically 3 men in my life, 2 from the long distant past as was my x but I choose him.
One of the others recently reappeared in my life he too is a Piscean, we had an instant connection as though 40 years had not come between us---is that normal?
The other was a Scopio he asked my sister to pass on his number to me recently too, he made her promise that she would-funny thing was I have kept it these past eons----is that normal.
The 3rd love I married and had the 40 years with and he has disappeared into the ether never to be heard of again. A capricorn.
Now then did I choose wrongly or what sign would have been my best bet?

Sorry ladies but if I didn't voice this now I never would.
Now I will let you get back to Ali and her tale of two men.
Thankyou.
In case you don't know I am a cancerian.