I agree with you guys on this...I'm not going to rescue her on this. I'm not going to talk about it with her anymore unless she brings it up and then only if it is not to rehash what has already been said. She knows where I stand now and knows what the future will be based on what she decides to do. She does have a little rescue built in with the fact that if she breaks off all ties with OM then I will hold off on moving the paperwork forward. No matter what I still want to go to the lawyer and mediator and get everything in order and if I have to file it then I will. If she changes then I can hold on to it. I'm sure she is going to test my resolve in this and I'm sure she will ask about it at some future time and my answer is honestly going to be that I'm exploring what my options are...because I am. The funny thing is...as much as it sucks to think about where this may end up it feels damn good to have my nuts back for a change.
