No, I haven't done anything to stop her. I just think she's been on the fence and undecided, and this counselor is pushing towards resolution, which I think is going to push her to the Lawyer's office. I'm trying to give it time, he's saying "get on with it, move on..." I need someone in my corner...
Exactly my point. If she wants it she can go get it. You are not controlling her. You have set your boundaries and are sticking to them. That means you have integrity. Good on u Mate! Keep on standing strong. She is confused and doesnt know what she wants so dont believe any words just some of her actions.