Has anyone out there ever reconciled with a spouse who became instantly distant and non-interested in your life? I want to try to save my M but it all seems so one sided right now. I know the book says it may be that way and to be patient. That is hard! I even thought about calling a psychic. See...I am a bit crazy now! Thanks everyone.........for listening..........
Oh yes! It can be done. Probably one of the hardest things you will EVER do, but worth it if it works. My own situation started almost the day I went back to work after having gone thru surgery and treatment for breast cancer. I watched as my H (who was my best friend) turned into a distant, mean and crazy alien.
It has been terribly hard work. Harder than the cancer was. But things are turning around for us, and I am again finding myself with the man that I fell in love with.
I would suggest that you read everything than you can about mid life crisis, and "How to Survive an Affair." I don't know if you can find any of my posts from last spring and summer. If you can, I got some wonderful advice from very wise posters. It kept me sane, and hopeful.
It can happen, one baby step at a time.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
