Hi Sandi, It has been such a busy couple of weeks! Regarding trying to outshine the OW, yes....I admit to attempting that. Have been working really hard to keep a PMA. Not just with regards to my M, but also with my children, the business, my health, life in general. In that respect, feeling much better and stronger.
I think that if H chooses OW over me, I will be OK...devastated, but OK. Not sure what their situation is. Sometimes, when H is gone on Sat/Sun mornings, I find myself thinking about what H is doing. With her? Not with her? ugh!!! Been working on stopping these thoughts and doing something else constructive. Planted flowers this weekend and that was a nice diversion.
Even though H and I have been getting along really well the last few weeks, great sex, fun times with friends, I am still pursuing my GAL goals because I don't know what the future holds. Afterall...he did tell me that he plans to move out once the kids are out of school this year. That conversation was in February. He hasn't spoken of this again nor have I. Still no I Love You's on my part - or his (following DR rules).
Amy has been an inspiration. I am still reading through her threads. Only towards the end of #2 so far!
I love your ideas for "outshining" OW. Thank you for your advice! Hope you are well today
