Let me be clear she wasn't talking about moving our M forward but a way to be better for the kids, ect. I just don't think you can talk about the present only because you'll be talking about what you are going to do (future tense)not what you are doing right at the moment in time. I still think it's a positive.
I agree with you. That's why I was confused to what my wife was trying to say. I was hoping that if she goes to another one with me, we can talk it through with the counselor so it will make more sense.
Thanks again for checking in on me. I hope you had a good weekend!
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13