Thanks hopefull and I'm so happy to read that this post helped you.
The only book I can think of that might be along the lines of what you are looking for is Starting Over by John Gray. This book is addressing Starting Over from any big trauma, but usually it refers to divorce or a big break up. It talks about how many men will try to find a rebound girl, a "band-aid" for the pain of break up, and how this really never works out and it isn't fair to the rebound girl. Women do this too but men are more notorious for not working through emotional pain. Women are better at it and its harder for them to move on. But the book is all about how you can't move into a healthy new relationship until you are healed from past ones. Even if you think you are healed, you aren't until enough time passes and enough lessons are learned. The book helps to guide you through this moving on, so it will really help YOU too, in case you are needing to move on now or in the future.
