Man, I'd give anything if my wife would go to counseling. Lots of guys here would! You're still in the game, man! Keep reading, learning, and studying. And above all, work on yourself and become a better man, father, and husband...regardless!
Antlers,
I appreciate the optimism. I know that at least she is going. I'm still not sure why she's going. She had picked up a uhaul truck last nite and took the day off today to pack up. Hard for me to be optimistic on a day light today.
It's still not clear to me as to why she's going to counseling as she really wouldn't give me a clear answer. Ever when our counselor asked, it sounds like she's treating it more like co-parenting counseling than marriage counseling.
At least I'm not stressing right now like I have been the last several weeks on what to talk about tonite with her in counseling. Guess I have to be thankful for the little things...
Thanks for checking in again!
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13