My first inclination in the past was to offer something back if the conversation started going in the direction I wished/hoped for. I learned a couple of times that as soon as I gave in just a little bit W would see weakness and jump on me for something unrelated.
I've learned to let my statements and actions stand as is without backpedaling -- but it is always a temptation.
I'm seeing some progress with my W (a whole week of positive interactions). It's enough to give me false hope, which is dangerous, I know.
