Don't try to figure him out. My W gave me the ILYBINILWY speach in Jan 08, PA at same time, wanted D in June yet still slept in same bed until Oct 08. in hindsight.
Words to remember - believe none of what they say and half of what they do.
It is a verrrrrrry long road you are on. Take care.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
in hindsight. 
