Lucky...I loved that movie, and I think most women really do. Men don't get it sometimes but women do. All of my female friends and my adult daughter just raved on it before I ever saw it. Now I own it (and the soundtrack, too).

I hope you find it and watch it! I doubt it is "on demand" as it is older and they don't seem to have really great movies that often.

Thank you for sharing your wedding experience...you know I went back and forth for a long time, thinking "oh maybe I should at least give my mom and kids the chance to see me in my dress" ... but then I'd flash forward to what you are describing, me all stressed out about the frickin' caterers etc, when all I really wanted to do was be happy and in love and stare in my lover's eyes....so I have continually rejected the small gathering wedding. Mr. DQ doesn't have any family around so his side of the equation is out of the picture. If he wanted to do a wedding for his own reasons, I would have happily complied. But he would be happy just going to a judge and signing a piece of paper...hmm....while I can downgrade to eloping, I can't quite do the signing a piece of paper only, LOL! So a private ceremony with just us and a minister in Hawaii is our common ground.

Thanks LG! You are always so sweet and supportive.

DQ