WAW/Affair Confirmed - Advice? #2

[DCBHM]

DC,

I certainly can empathize with these kinds of thoughts, but really -- what purpose would it serve? Don't you pretty much know "the truth" anyway???

fwiw, I did, in my situation, finally re-confront my wife at about the 60-day mark, and insist that she stop lying about me to her parents and our daughters, and that if she DIDN'T stop, I would share my evidence of her affair with them. I figured I couldn't stop her from lying about her affair, but I damned sure was going to make sure she stopped lying about me.

Puppy

I guess the only purpose is feeding my desire not to be lied to. I gave enough of my life to this person that I feel the absolute least I deserve is the truth from her own mouth. I've always been honest with her, and I've always done exactly what I said I was going to do.

I know I'm being lied to. She knows she is lying. I figure there is no point to it, because all she is doing in the end is causing more damage.

In your situation, how did your re-confront go?

I would love to end her A or at the very least tell me that she is ending her M because she is having an A. Lying on the way out is what is upsetting to me.